Making Progress

We got back from London on Sunday. It was a wonderful trip because we found the wedding sarees I was looking for. I say ‘sarees’ because we have two events – a slightly smaller traditional event and a large reception the following day. I want to wear only one attire for each event as I’m so not the person who can change in a hurry.

We were actually going to go to India to look for our wedding attire but flights to India from Norway are really expensive, even more expensive than the wedding attire itself. So, in an effort to be a bit frugal, I started researching on other distributors/resellers for this particular designer. As luck would have it, there was a shop in London that officially carried this designer’s clothing.

We went there Friday morning post breakfast and I think I made my choice in less than 20 minutes for the first saree. I had only intended to buy one, actually, for the large reception. But, after asking the sales assistant to put the one I chose aside, I stumbled upon another one – but it was in the same colour family as the first saree. I happen to ask the sales assistant if she had the same design in a different colour and true enough she brought out a beautiful, summery, bright colour and I was really tempted. The fiancee seemed to love it and hinted that I should take this one as well – for our smaller traditional event. So, in the end, we got both.

In Indian weddings, usually the bride and groom go shopping together. It’s rare that the groom does not see the bride’s sarees beforehand. At least, not in my family. So it wasn’t really an issue for us. That said, because I don’t live near my family, I usually consult the fiancee for most things anyway. It would be weird to buy something without showing it to him first, you know?

So now I have one more thing off my list :)

The other good news is that we’ve hired a wedding planner. We had a slightly upsetting experience with another wedding decorator who did not get back to us for more than a month and as pleasant as she seemed when we met her in person, things didn’t go the way we had hoped for. We figured we should let it go and start afresh. So we have hired a wedding planner and will start the official planning this week.

Things are slowly falling into place and I’m starting to be a little less overwhelmed and a little more hopeful.

Current Favourites

Current Favourites

NIKE platform sneaker
nordstrom.com

NARS Cosmetics beauty product
$47 - liberty.co.uk

Lately I’ve been using some items frequently and I figured it’s time for a new Current Favourites post. So, here goes:

  • Tarte Cosmetics Airbrush Finish Foundation Brush – Sometime last year, I asked the fiancee to get me this brush from Sephora. It has now become my favourite foundation brush in the whole world. I don’t say this lightly. I have sensitive, acne prone skin and applying foundation is my secret to leaving the house looking presentable. This brush buffs foundation like nobody’s business – it works wonderfully well with liquid foundation  with medium coverage. I hadn’t been using this often enough but recently, I rediscovered it and have been loving it.
  • Chanel Le Volume de Chanel Mascara in Noir – I read about this mascara recently and decided to get it when I was traveling, at duty free (like most of my makeup purchases). It has a flexible wand and application is a wee bit tricky. I usually remove the excess at the rim of the tube or dab it against a clean tissue first as I’m not a huge fan of clumpy lashes. But on application, it’s really pretty. This mascara does not smudge, flake, or run. I don’t think it is marketed as waterproof but it lasts all day on me.
  • Swatch Deep Shine Green – The fiancee got me this when we were in Paris last Fall. There’s a Swatch store on Champs Elysees and we went in for fun and came out with a watch each. The glitter in the strap is a nice detail. I’ve been wearing this a bit lately and I love the silicone strap. It’s so comfortable you barely notice it.
  • NARS Sheer Glow in Macao – I got my first bottle of NARS Sheer Glow about two years ago I believe. It was a balm June afternoon, the fiancee and I were in Liberty of London perusing NARS cosmetics. OK, I was looking at the NARS products and he was dutifully standing nearby being all patient and supportive :) I asked the makeup artiste to apply it for me and the shade was perfect. You gotta love NARS and his beautiful colour range. So, I got a bottle of this and since then I have finished it and got a second bottle. While clearing up my apartment recently (more on that later) I rediscovered this bottle. I have a few bottles of foundation that I rotate with depending on the weather and the primer I’m using (and how naughty my skin is that day) so I don’t always use this NARS. That said, it is a beautiful foundation with a nice medium coverage. It blends very well and sets properly. I do use a setting power (either a NARS or Laura Mercier, sometimes MAC’s Mineralize Skinfinish) and it lasts a full work day on me. My skin has changed lately, becoming more dry, and this foundation really gives it life.
  • Nike Dunk Sky Hi Wedge Sneakers – I know, I know, Wedge sneakers are a bit too hyped up and common ever since Isabel Marant designed hers. I won’t lie, I was thinking they looked a bit weird until Sheena on Twitter mentioned that she got the New York limited edition version. I was a bit curious but didn’t feel like splurging on the limited edition version, so I asked the fiancee to try to get it while he was in the US. I contemplated ordering it online but he was leaving soon and said it might not be a good idea. So on a whim, I sent him a link and he managed to find some spare minutes to dash into the store and pick it up. When he came back to Norway and I met him the next day to pick up my ‘stash’, I was shocked to see it in orange. I had asked for the black version. It seems the link I gave him showed the orange version (gah!) but once I put them on – I was in love. These shoes are quite comfortable for work. I wouldn’t wear them for a full day out as they do sometimes rub against my little toe, but just for going to work and coming home, they are perfect. I’m tempted to get the black pair, but we shall see.
  • Ray-Ban RB2132 New Wayfarers – I love Ray-Ban because they are really comfortable and timeless. But, in Norway, Ray-Bans are not cheap. I was lucky enough to spot this pair in a mall in KL (Bukit Tinggi I believe?) and it was on 40% discount. I hadn’t bought a pair of sunglasses since 2011 so I figured it was time. I tried on two versions of this sunglasses: a slightly smaller one and a bigger one. I think these are the 52mm ones. I *might* be wrong but I know I always buy what they call the “Medium” sized ones. My frame is black rubber and the lenses are green tinted. They are extremely comfortable and do not really colour your view. You just get less glare.

Chuggin’ Along

So.. the fiancee and I have now started planning our wedding.

We have a few things narrowed down but it’s kind of tricky because we are planning a wedding 6000 miles away from where we live. There’s just so many things to take care of.

I can’t decide what kind of a wedding saree I want to wear. There is a designer I really, really like. But I never wear sarees because Oslo is just not very saree-friendly due to the weather. So, I’m not sure if I want to splurge on this designer saree. That said, it is a wedding and if you don’t splurge on your wedding, then when else, right?

So, we are traveling next month to hunt for my ‘dream’ saree.

I’m actually kind of nervous about it because I’ve never bought my own saree before. Usually my Mom is there to help me choose and give useful feedback on the quality, texture, design, etc. This whole getting married thing has made me realize that I will have do a lot of life changing things on my own. I mean, I do live alone, far, far away from home, but I still consult my parents on many things. Jobs (I never sign a contract without running it by my Dad), savings, plans, buying gadgets – I usually ask one of my parents about these things. They always give pretty sound advice too.

It’s just sometimes, you really want to make your own decisions – and then life gives you that chance – but then you realize how difficult it is to make life changing decisions.

I’m giving up my apartment. I’ve lived there for about 5 years and it’s a bit difficult to give it up. So many happy and sad things have taken place in that apartment. I remember first moving in and thinking: “This place is huge! There is no way I will ever be able to fill up these bookshelves!” Well, guess what? The bookshelves are overflowing. I guess we grow into our surroundings – either that or I’m just a hoarder trying to adapt to Scandinavian minimalistic furnishings :)

The fiancee and  I are going to do our civil marriage here in Norway, then move in and save up for our actual wedding. It’s a bit unconventional and not exactly what I had imagined. But living in two separate apartments in the 4th most expensive city in the world is not the secret to financial freedom. Apartments require so much time and maintenance. We are both working full time and planning a wedding. Though, I have to say, my family has been so helpful and understanding – especially my Mom. I actually call her a few times a week, at  6 something in the morning (my time). In the beginning I dreaded the wedding planning, but if it means I get to have some nice conversations with my Mom, then it definitely has it’s upsides.

I’m not a wedding person – you know? I’m not soppy or romantic. I’m sitting here trying to string together some words to draft our wedding invitation cards and I’m stumped! You’d think a technical writer will be able to draft a wedding invitation. Well, maybe not. I also don’t know if we want a wedding website (feels a bit cheesy) but it would be nice to use an online RSVP tool, which some of the wedding website hosting companies provide.

Oh well, I’m chuggin’ along. Trying to figure things out. 2013 has been one eventful year so far.

TGIF

I’m so glad it’s Friday today. I haven’t blogged in awhile because I was traveling – first to London in February to pick out our wedding rings and see my best friend M, whom I hadn’t seen in awhile. I also have a cousin in London who is really fun to hang out with so that’s what we did for a weekend in February.

After that work really picked up and I had to rush to complete stuff just to be able to go home with a clean conscience in mid March. Yes I was in Malaysia but this time, it was more intense than the usual trips so I barely had any time to meet up with friends. Actually I met no friends at all because all our time was spent either scouting out event locations for our wedding, shopping for Spring in Oslo (which has not materialized at all!), and just spending time with my little niece and nephew.

Ahh, my little niece. She’s just way too much fun.  She has this cheeky, impish grin that makes it almost impossible for anybody to be annoyed or mad at her. The fiancée and I talk about her every day. The best thing that could happen this year would be to actually be able to attend her 5th birthday party. I’m really hoping that happens. *Fingers crossed* My elder sister is one of those cool Moms who holds themed birthday parties for her kids. Every year I see the photos and feel so sad that I could not attend that party.

We did a bit of shopping, I won’t lie. My sisters and I love to shop – we get it from Mom – and I found some wonderful items at Gap (my favourite shop),  Levi’s, and Rockport.

I have to say the Sephora in KL is a huge disappointment especially if you have experienced a Sephora in the US. Despite Malaysia having dark/tanned skin people, Sephora does not have most of the shades of cosmetics I was looking for. I was looking for a Laura Mercier foundation (Oil free supreme) in Toffee Bronze. Laura Mercier’s foundation comes in 12 shades, but Sephora had 4. Seriously, that’s 1/4 of the range. It makes no sense to me at all.

Don’t even get me started on Chanel. I use Perfection Lumiere foundation in shade 94, but I could not find that in KL. Chanel Perfection Lumiere, in the US, they have 20 different shades. But in KL, I think they only had like 6 shades. It’s such a shame. You have the money to spend on the foundation but it’s like they don’t want your money.

There are so many beautiful restaurants in KL lately and we were really lucky to eat at some of them. We had biryani at Fierce Curry House which was utterly scrumptious. My younger sister took us to lunch at Ben’s Independent Grocer. The eggplant and chicken salad with kicap manis and garlic dressing was amazing. I am so going to try to replicate that. My mother had a small gathering at Taj Garden, which was also really good. They make this thin bread, known as Roomali roti. I could live on that. My Dad took us for BBQ at Halia restaurant. The fried rice was so good. Not to mention the nasi lemak. When you live away from KL, the first nasi lemak is always the best meal – ever. My brother-in-law took us to Rakuzen. Best. Japanese. Food. Ever. I savoured every single spoon of my black sesame ice-cream as I don’t know when I will get another scoop of that this year :)

Contented sigh.

I’m sorry I have no photographs this time. It was a 27 hour journey to KL and a 28 hour journey back. Lugging my DSLR camera around was just something I could not do.

The Cold

Movies make cold weather look so mysterious; so romantic. You know when you watch movies and the male lead character jogs across the street, clad in a very in-season, unbuttoned, wool coat – without a scarf or a beanie because he will look less fashionable then – with his hands jammed into his coat pockets? Let me tell you something: it’s anything but mysterious or romantic. It’s just freezing.

Oh my goodness – I cannot even explain how cold it has been lately. About -17 C. I have experienced -22 C about two years ago but I  I must have forgotten how bitterly cold it was. -17 C is killing me so much so that I am walking around bundled up like a Teletubby. I wear wool mixed tights inside my jeans and a wool sweater (with another singlet underneath to keep the wool clean), wool hat, wool lined shoes, wool socks, wool lined gloves and a down puffer jacket: and I’m still cold. Usually around the face area. The only option left is for me to wear a monkey cap or a fur hat. *Shudder*

A few years ago, a friend of mine, Sher, told me something along the lines of how the worst part of winter was the slippery ice. I didn’t think you could slip on snow, but now that I am constantly slipping on ice… I think she was right. Winter looks so pretty and innocent until you encounter a huge piece of black ice on the ground that you have to literally glide across to get to your destination. Add in grocery bags and a coffee cup and it’s even trickier to walk on ice. Sometimes, some kind soul pours gravel on the ice and then it’s easier to walk around, but most of the time the gravel is covered by new ice (that was originally snow before the weather warmed up).

In the spirit of positivity, here’s a photograph of what the city looked like recently. That blue cube is not a Tardis, but a public toilet ;)

Around Oslo

Around Oslo

I think I’m ready for Spring.

..And The New Year Brought New Changes

Happy New Year. So much has been going on. The bf proposed on New Year’s Eve, so I’ve been slowly easing into wedding planning. We had a quiet New Year’s Eve where the bf cooked: homemade pork rib roast with some vegetables and I made chocolate fondants served with ice-cream. I’d like to think the chocolate fondants were so good, that’s why the ring showed up :)

Here’s what the engagement ring looks like. The setting is the classic Tiffany setting with the 6 prongs and the diamond is almost the same size. I have to say I’m quite impressed with the bf’s choice of ring.

I don’t have a photograph of me wearing the ring because I just haven’t gotten around to it. I also believe some things are personal. Maybe when I’m a bit more comfortable, I’ll share a photo.

We haven’t set a date yet, but it will be an event in Malaysia mid next year, not Norway.

I do have a couple of New Year’s Resolutions, some of which are:

  • Be healthy – Workout and eat as well as I can.
  • Be positive – Don’t obsess on the things that I cannot change.
  • Stay sane – I’m trying to plan a wedding with a lot of help from my family because I’m not physically there. I have a feeling it’s going to be a bit crazy at some point but I hope I won’t get stressed and annoyed and all that.
  • Save – I don’t think we’ll be traveling much this year because there’s just so much to do. But let’s see how the year shapes up.

So, how’s your new year going so far? I hope the new year is starting out with lots of possibilities and opportunities for you :)

The Paris Trip

The bf and I have always wanted to go to Paris, but it just was one of those trips that never got around to being planned. We found some reasonably priced tickets to Paris and we decided to get them.

Paris was, magical. It’s on the same level as Venice, to me, at least. That’s how nice it is.

First things first – Paris is huge. We always travel with the knowledge that we cannot see and do everything on our list and that’s fine. But you know, with Paris, I was a wee bit disappointed with how many things we had to strike off our list and postpone for another trip. We didn’t go to the Eiffel Tower because we didn’t want to queue. Effectively we only had Saturday to Tuesday in Paris and we were back to work on Wednesday morning so we figured we’d do the less popular places and just wander around the city and get a feel of it. The best part about living in Norway is that Paris is only a 2.5-hours flight away so we’ll go again. I’m quite sure of it as it’s always been a travel pattern the bf and I have – repeatedly visit cities we can’t seem to get enough of.

Arc du Triomphe

Arc du Triomphe

Boulevard Haussmann

Boulevard Haussmann

I wasn’t really interested in shopping at Boulevard Haussmann, i.e. Printemps and Galeries Lafayette because I’ve already shopped a lot this year. We walked in and did a quick round Printemps and then we got “lost” in Ladurée. Oh my goodness, if you’ve never eaten a macaron at Ladurée - you need to. I won’t lie, it is hyped, but it’s quite delicious. I have walked past the Ladurée branch in Covent Garden, London a few times and told myself that it’ll just be something sweet that I’ll regret eating once I know how many calories are in it; but in Paris I just couldn’t resist. I feel the regular macarons (at least the ones I’ve tried in Norway) seem to taste very sugary, compared to the Ladurée ones. The macaron shell texture is amazing and the flavours like salted caramel, coffee, vanilla and lemon were amazing. The bf and I brought back a few small boxes home for ourselves and for our colleagues at work. They loved it too. I think the bf and I ate macarons for dessert for about 5 days in a row. It was kind of our plan, to eat a bit of it so we’ll get tired of it and won’t miss it till the next time we encounter a Ladurée store. I think it has worked well, so far :)

Around Avenue des Ternes

Around Avenue des Ternes

Around Avenue des Ternes

Around Avenue des Ternes

We stayed at Charles de Gaulle Etoile and walked around this area a bit. Charles de Gaulle Etoile the star shaped plaza where Arc de Triomphe is standing in the centre. There are some nice cafes and restaurants around here. One of it is Lateral where I had a delicious vegetarian linguine dish here. The ambience of this cafe is really pleasant especially after a long day of walking.

Pharmacie

Pharmacie

Ahh, French Pharmacies: One of the things I love most about Paris. The sheer number of pharmacies! I think I popped into four different pharmacies to get some French skincare products. It was way too much fun. I had brought almost nothing with me on the trip so that I would have enough space in my luggage to carry back all the bottles. In retrospect it was a wise decision. I got a few bottles of Bioderma Crealine, some Caudalie shower gels and some La Roche-Posay Lipikar body lotion.

Around the city

Around the city

It’s interesting how Paris looks so classy. I’m constantly impressed by how expensive some of the buildings look. The buildings and their grandeur probably cost a hundreds of years ago, when they were built. That said, I can only imagine how much it must cost these days to maintain them.

The Bf :)

The Bf :)

The Bf, despite being from Germany, has never been to Paris before. But he has learned French at school, so I kind of just tagged along with him. He worried about our train tickets and taxi stops, while I just daydreamed and walked around with huge eyes.

Around the Louvre

Around the Louvre

We spent a good three hours in the Louvre. It’s such a beautiful museum. I’m easily distracted, but I managed to walk around the Louvre for 3 hours without feeling bored at all. We bought an additional ticket to gain entry to view the Raphael exhibition. It was beautiful. The creativity and amount of detail (writers are told to avoid ‘painstaking detail’ because it’s cliché ;) ) that went into his work is astounding. The exhibition also mentioned his assistants: Romano and Penni and included some of their works. It was kind of sad that Raphael died at such a young age (37). To think, today, we often say “Life begins at 40″. As somebody who works with computers, I’m always in awe of people with artistic skills. Not that Raphael had skills, he was just, magnificent. Knowing that he had a rival, Michaelangelo, just makes him seem all the more human :) The Raphael exhibition is going on until January 14, so if you happen to be in Paris from now until January, you might want to catch it.

The Louvre also has a gorgeous and very, very informative Islamic arts exhibition. It seems to be quite new (September 22 onwards) and includes the smallest item, e.g. a spoon to large mosaics that are just magical. There was a beautiful Jali screen that was from the Mughal era, that transported you to the Mughal period, right that second. We marvel so much about what is created today, but it must have been so much more difficult to create art in those days. It was also very cute how the armour that was used in some parts of India had a special type of headgear to incorporate the turbans that they wore back then.

The Louvre

The Louvre

The Bf outside the Louvre

The Bf outside the Louvre

The Louvre

The Louvre

Outside the Louvre

Outside the Louvre

The famous Louvre Pyramid

The famous Louvre Pyramid

Hotel des Invalides and Dome des Invalides

Hotel des Invalides and Dome des Invalides

I was very taken with Les Invalides. The gilded dome was just beautiful. We didn’t go into the area, but just walked around the main road on the outside, on our way back to the hotel from lunch at Le Clarisse. I’ve never experienced the kind of service at a restaurant that is provided at Le Clarisse. It’s a one of a kind fusion restaurant, from what I understand, combining French and Asian cuisine. HiP Paris has a very nice review of the restaurant here. I didn’t take any photographs as I wanted to focus purely on the food.

Now, speaking of food, another cool place we ate at was L’Office. It was a pleasant restaurant with yummy food. The restaurant itself was not very big so you had to make a reservation if you wanted to eat there. I had a seafood risotto with curry sauce, I think. I remember it being utterly divine. Here’s a nice review of the restaurant with some photographs. Again, I was trying to focus on the food, so I didn’t whip out my camera.

The thing I noticed about Paris is that it’s so busy. If you want to eat at a particular restaurant, you had to make reservations. I’ve never had to make that many reservations for restaurants in London, though. I guess it’s because food is a really big part of the French lifestyle and they really enjoy their food. I wish I could eat slower, actually. I usually rush through my food because I’m not good at sitting in one place for too long.

Near Les Invalides

Near Les Invalides

Around Les Invalides

Around Les Invalides

I think this is at the Alexandre III Bridge. I remember seeing this bridge in the movie Midnight in Paris. But I’m not 100% sure if this is where I took that photograph.

We also walked around the St Germain area. I wanted to go to the Diptyque store. It was a quaint shop that had a very nice range of colognes, candles, and room sprays. When I visit Paris again, Diptyque is definitely one of the places I’m going to stop by. I so want the 34 Blvd Saint Germain Eau de Toilette!

Me in Paris

Me in Paris

OK, so that’s me in Paris. I’m always asked why I don’t have photographs of myself when I travel. Part of the reason is the camera. I’m constantly snapping photographs. When I’m not taking photographs, I’m carrying shopping bags :) Now, the other reason is the Bell’s Palsy. My left eye was still a little bit smaller than my right eye, so I haven’t been feeling very comfortable in front of the camera. Strangely, after coming back from Paris, the effects of the palsy is a lot less noticeable. My eyes are somewhat normal now and my mouth is much more symmetrical than I ever remember it to be in the past few months. It’s such a relief to know that you’re healing. I hadn’t realized that every time I brushed my teeth, I was checking my facial symmetry: the things we take for granted.

Current Favourites

Current Favourites

Acne fringe scarve
975 NOK - farfetch.com

Giorgio armani
180 NOK - giorgioarmanibeauty-usa.com

Bobbi brown cosmetic
270 NOK - harrods.com

Smashbox
165 NOK - smashbox.com

Here are some things I’ve been crazy about lately:

  • ACNE Quebec Royal Blue/Navy Scarf – I usually buy myself new winter accessories every winter if I’m not going to buy a new coat. (Technically, I have been scouting around for a new coat but I haven’t found one that fits well enough to justify the expense.) But seeing as I didn’t get a coat so far, I got a better scarf than what I would normally buy. This scarf is ultimate luxury. It’s 100% wool and feels so, very, comfortable. When I wear it, it feels as if the words “cold” and “neck” will never co-exist in a thought, in my mind. That is how comfortable it is! I wear it almost every day, to decrease it’s cost-per-wear. It helps that it goes with my camel jacket and my black down jacket.
  • Bioderma Crealine H2O – I’m sure you’ve heard about this makeup remover before. It’s the bee’s knees. I wear eye makeup about 3 to 4 times a week. Even if I don’t wear eyeshadow, I still use eyeshadow primer to keep my mascara from smudging. Normally, removing my eye makeup is a bit of a time consuming task but I persevere because it needs to be done and I’m a clean freak. That said, with the Bioderma makeup remover, I can sit on the couch with 2-3 saturated cotton pads and remove my eye makeup slowly, without any rubbing or tugging. I don’t even need a mirror as I know it will remove almost everything. I usually use a cotton bud soaked in it to clean my waterline and lashes, but even that is easy to do as the makeup remover does not irritate my eyes or my contact lenses at all. I always use a separate face makeup remover because I like a good oil cleanser, but in a pinch, I have used this before and it’s been pretty clean. I do rinse my entire face with facial cleanser later though – clean freak, remember? :) I bought 3 bottles of these in Paris. I’m going to have to go hunting for it online when I’m finished. I hope that day never comes though :( Shipping to Norway is expensive.
  • Bobbi Brown Long-wear Even Finish Foundation – When I was in Seattle, a couple of months ago, I got a sample of this foundation. I thought 6.5 Warm Almond was a really good match but I didn’t have time to wear it there so I brought the sample back home and forgot about it. Before I went to Paris I was going through my sample stash and then stumbled upon this. I used the sample three times and loved it. So I bought a bottle in Paris and have been using it ever since. It blends very well and lasts throughout a work day. I use it with various oil-free, mattifying primers because I always use a primer. If you have combination/oily skin and want a long wearing foundation that won’t oxidize, with a semi-matte finish, this is a good buy.
  • Giorgio Armani Eyes to Kill Intense Eyeshadow Acqua collection – I’ve been using this eyeshadow in #24 recently. I love it so much I sometimes wear it for two consecutive days. That’s very out-of-character for me actually as I usually rotate my eyeshadows a lot. I love wearing a different product everyday. But, the look I get with this eyeshadow is just too beautiful to not use it. I usually wear a primer and a base, but because Eyes to Kill Intense Eyeshadows are long-wearing, I can skip the base and just use a primer and it will last a good 10 hours without creasing. I’ve never worn eyeshadows without primer so I wouldn’t know how long this eyeshadow lasts without primer. Temptalia has good swatches and a nice review for this product. If you like eyeshadows and want a workhorse product that you can wear all the time, this is definitely a good splurge.
  • Smashbox Image Factory Airblush Whipped Cheek Color – I bought this in Berry Bliss, at Sephora in Paris. I wasn’t looking to buy a blush actually, but when I landed in Paris and was getting ready for dinner that night, I realized that I had completely forgotten to bring a blush with me. So, the next day I had to hunt for one at Sephora. I was looking for a blush that was guaranteed to work with my skin tone and I didn’t have much time to swatch and compare. The texture of this product is like a mousse but it’s very pigmented. You barely need a swipe on your brush to get a healthy, lively look.

German Cheesecake

German cheesecake, better known as Käesekuchen, is a tricky cake for me to make because it’s usually made with Quark which is a special type of cheese, that is not available here.

At least that’s what I thought and I’ve been buying Quark and bringing it in a freezer bag in my luggage, during previous trips to Germany, just so I can make German cheesecake. I’ve also been cheating with instant mixes from Dr. Oetker, also only available in Germany.

Dr Oetker Käesekuchen Mix

Dr Oetker Käesekuchen Mix (Image from http://www.euro-goodies.com)

I know, I’m a little bit food obsessed but I look forward to these little things. When I first moved into my current apartment, about 4 years ago, I used to host cheesecake parties where I’d invite the bf along with some friends and we’d just eat cheesecake and sip tea or hot chocolate till it was almost dinner time. Sometimes we went out for dinner after that. Those were some of the most happiest times, ever.

I have a cake party event at work next week where different people sign up to bring different cakes and you sit at the office cafeteria and eat cake. It’s based on a Norwegian tradition known as “Kakebord” literally meaning “cake table”. I was trying to decide between making my Mother’s chocolate cake or a German cheesecake, but the cheesecake won because it doesn’t require a topping. I’m not very good at spreading out topping. I also discovered, recently, that Quark can be replaced with Kesam which is sold here. Kesam is a bit more watery in consistency, but taste wise, it’s pretty similar.

So, armed with this new substitute ingredient (though according to alternativeeating, it’s the same thing), I went hunting for a recipe that I could make. Most of the ones I found required baking using the Bain Marie method which I have never tried before, and the last thing I want to do is to make something complex and stress about it at the kitchen. I think baking should be fun, not stressful. Then, I stumbled upon this recipe on Anja’s Food 4 Thought. It was relatively simple and required very few ingredients.

Now let’s get to the interesting part, this is what a slice of the cake looks like.

German Cheesecake

German Cheesecake

Here’s a closer look:

German Cheesecake

German Cheesecake

This is how it looks before refrigeration. Usually the cheese layer will become more dense after refrigeration. I’ve placed most of the pieces into containers to be given away to some of our friends tomorrow because the bf and I don’t want to end up eating the whole cake. Shared calories is less calories ;)

The cake has turned out pretty well. I wouldn’t say it’s German Cafe level, but it’s tasty. I do wish I could make a slightly higher cake, but I think that might require tweaking the recipe a little. I hope I can make something similar that tastes just as good for the cake party in a few days’ from now. Wish me luck!

What I’ve Been Up To

They say life happens when you are busy planning. Honestly I haven’t been planning, but I’ve just been, managing. Just going through the day-to-day routines and trying to keep my head afloat. There’s so much to do but so little time. But, it’s always good to be busy as it probably means that I’m of use to the universe :)

Diwali, the festival of lights, was on last Tuesday. I was actually a bit homesick because it was the third Diwali that I was away from my family. When I was a kid, Diwali was such a big deal. We celebrated it so grandly. One of the best things about Diwali was that everybody wore new clothes and since we were kids, we had new shoes, pyjamas, even new underwear ;) As I grow older, and since I live away from my family, it’s a bit of a strange day. I know everybody I am related to will be having fun: eating, partying, talking, watching the latest Tamil movie that released that day, etc. I usually end up working on that day and it’s a bit surreal. I could take the day off, but working on that day is a way of dealing with homesickness: keeping busy.

In 2010, the bf took me to San Francisco for Diwali because he was going to be away and he didn’t want me to be alone. This year I was actually alone because he was in Berlin for work and I didn’t feel like taking days off to wander around Berlin alone while he was working. My workload is kind of insane lately, too, so it doesn’t feel right to take days off right now. To avoid being miserable, I had a nice FaceTime call with my family, then I went to work.

After work I had some good sushi for takeout and finally plonked msyelf in the cinema for the almost-3-hour-long Hindi movie Jab Tak Hai Jaan. I’m a huge fan of Indian movies:  the movies and the music. A huge portion of my playlist consists of Tamil and Hindi movie soundtrack and this music keeps me sane. The more music I listen to at work, the less angry I become. I’ll also watch any movie with Shah Rukh Khan in it because I think he’s a really good actor. He also talks very, very well. There was a radio interview he did for BBC to celebrate his 20 years in the movie industry and he was so entertaining to listen to. There are some highlights you can view here.

Anyway, Jab Tak Hai Jaan is quite a good movie, not just because it’s partially shot in London (There’s a scene right outside Covent Garden, on that street where I walk by to go to Neal’s Yard!) but because it’s one of those movies that you can just get lost in and not think about logic and reality, you know? That’s the best part about watching a movie. You get to escape a bit. It’s also why I love to read. I think I just need to know that there are other people out there with different lives and that my challenges are just…a drop of water in the ocean. I have this habit at work where I step out of my office and take a walk in the city from time to time. It really helps me to clear my head. Of course it helps to work smack dab in the middle of three different shopping malls. *Evil laugh*

So, apart from Diwali and watching the movie, not much is up here. I have plans to go to Germany for Christmas to visit the bf’s family. We’re not sure what to do for New Year’s Eve though. I’ll be very honest: I’d love to go to London. It would be amazing. But, I also don’t want to push my travel luck anymore because there have been some amazing trips this year so far and sometimes, it would be wise to not ask the universe for too much. So, I shall wait and see.

Oh, my Mom sent me some of her homemade fruitcake in the mail. It’s very cute. She registered the parcel as well so I have to stop by the post office later to pick up fruitcake. I’m really looking forward to eating it though. It’ll definitely help with the homesickness.

I won’t say I regret living away from home, but I will say that I didn’t realize how difficult it would be. I have lived away from home for almost 8 years now. It started with studying abroad and then it went on to working abroad. When you make a decision to move in your early 20s, you only think of that point. Like most young people, back then, I couldn’t even imagine being where I am now. In hindsight maybe I should have made that effort to visualize it. But I guess nothing prepares you for a lot of things – like knowing that your parents are getting older, your nieces and nephews are growing – just realizing how much you miss out on by not being there. I won’t lie. It sucks. But that said, life goes on and absence makes the heart grow fonder. So, if you’re considering moving away from home, just be careful to consider the other aspects as well. Time can take moments from you.

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